Master The Art of Intergating Attachment & Differentitation in Couples Therapy

Elevate your practice with thoughtful and practical structures, tools and a dynamic framework

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Does this sound like you?

You want to work with couples, but when you do, you feel overwhelmed, lost or stuck.

You've done various couples therapy trainings and workshops, but you don't know how to bring all the learnings together in a way that works for you. It feels like throwing spaghetti at the wall and hoping something sticks!
You want to break the the cycle of exhausting, one-sided sessions -- often working harder than your clients to improve their relationship.

You struggle to establish a process that puts you in the driver seat, while not losing your footing along the way.

Despite your extensive training in couples therapy, you know in your gut that something is missing - there has to be a better way to tackle some of these recurring, challenging moments.

You find that when you try to apply current modalities, they are either too rigid, complicated, or not quite suited for the couple(s) you are working with.

I've been there!

Having dedicated my practice to working almost exclusively with couples, I understand the feelings of discouragement, frustration, and confusion that can arise. The Integrated Growth Approach was born from my extensive training in the most renowned couples therapy modalities and my discovery of countless opportunities to thoughtfully integrate interventions that drive meaningful change.

This masterclass is designed to transform and elevate the way you practice couples therapy and coaching by breaking down the arbitrary barriers between attachment and differentiation. Grounded in the complementary strengths of these two theories, this course provides a clear, structured, and dynamic framework to enhance your work with couples.

In just a few weeks, you'll be able to...

Be clear and confident about why your couple is stuck and how their individual growth will create change.
Precisely know when and how to galvanize the unique strengths of attachment and differentiation without losing your balance.
Work with motivated and engaged couples who want to do their part to improve their relationship.
Have a community of like-minded and supportive colleagues who are passionate about working with couples in an integrated way.

INTRODUCING

The Integrated Growth Approach

A Masterclass in Attachment & Differentiation for Couples Therapy

Are You Ready To Feel Energized Working With Couples?

This masterclass includes 6 pre-recorded, focused modules along with 5 live meetings to deepen your knowledge (including two 90 minute meetings to apply the learnings to your actual cases). This course will provide a dynamic framework and tools so that you can:

Track your couples' negative cycle while promoting individual growth and coach essential communication skills that foster healthy connection.
Clearly conceptualize your cases through the lenses of attachment & differentiation in ways you never thought possible.

Maximize your intake paperwork for more focused sessions.
Establish a strong foundation for the couples therapy process with a structured assessment that ensures you won't work harder than your clients.

Your Transformation Starts Here

This course is for therapists and coaches who are ready to stop spinning their wheels and start leading couples toward sustainable change. If you’ve ever felt drained by your couples therapy sessions, unsure how to balance attachment and differentiation in your approach, or just want a clearer, more effective framework for helping couples—this masterclass is for you!

Step into the next level of your practice. Lead with confidence. Help couples thrive. And love your work again.

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What's Included In

The Integrated Growth Approach Masterclass

MODULE 1

Objectives & Considerations

Connect with the objectives of this training and the fundamentals of working with couples:

Sociocultural considerations
Self-of-therapist awareness
Limitations of couples therapy

MODULE 2

The Road to The Integrated Growth Approach

Deep dive into attachment & differentiation - the building blocks of the Integrated Growth Approach:

Thorough overview of attachment & differentiation theories for couples therapy
How they converge & diverge
Core pillars of the Integrated Growth Approach

MODULE 3

Questionnaire & Case Conceptualization

Maximize your questionnaire and begin conceptualizing your cases with three case study examples:

Review the anatomy of a strong questionnaire
Conceptualize your cases through attachment & differentiation
Set a vision for how you'll leverage attachment & differentiation in your sessions

MODULE 4

Phase 1: Assessment Sessions

Start off on a strong foot with a thorough assessment period to ensure a collaborative process that seeds growth:

Structure and specific focus of assessment sessions
Highlight underlying objectives for long term growth
Promote client mobilization toward individual goals & shared vision

MODULE 5

Phase 2-3: Integration of Attachment & Differentiation

Be empowered with a roadmap to growth and zoom into the critical moments for integration

Tracking the couple's negative cycle without losing individual growth
Promote differentiation skills required for strong communication
Capture & leverage the unique opportunities for integration

MODULE 6

Get Unstuck & Learn What's Next

Learn how to move out of some of the most common places where therapists get stuck and find out what happens next

Learn how to untangle yourself from the most common stuck and frustrating moments
Overview of the masterclass
Find out how you can continue to deepen your practice

NICE TO MEET YOU

I'm Ebru Halper,

I own a thriving private practice in Connecticut and New York, specializing in all aspects of couples therapy, including leading weekend intensives. My expertise lies in attachment theory, differentiation, and relational healing. In addition to my clinical work, I supervise and consult for many therapists—I love geeking out over challenging cases and celebrating others’ wins.

My journey to feeling confident and energized in my work with couples wasn’t linear.

Despite being deeply connected to the vulnerable, transformative work of Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples, I often felt overwhelmed, exhausted, and frustrated. And even though I was certified in EFT, at times, it seemed like I was doing all the emotional heavy lifting in the therapy room—working harder than my clients, fighting for their relationships while they remained stuck in old patterns. I poured hours into every case, believing that sheer effort would be enough to create change. It wasn’t.

Burnout hit hard. But as a tenacious, lifelong learner, I sought out additional training to fill the gaps in my sessions with couples. Each workshop and training brought a renewed sense of energy. And yet, I repeatedly found myself feeling lost, questioning my approach whenever I hit recurring moments of feeling stuck.

My extensive training in the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy was a turning point—it directly addressed my core frustrations. But I didn’t want to lose my foundation in attachment-based couples therapy.

Through trial and error, I discovered a powerful synergy of attachment and differentiation—the missing link that transformed not just my work, but my entire approach to therapy. Rather than choosing between two orientations that often seem at odds, I learned to harness both forces together. I became clear-headed, empowered, and more effective, guiding couples through deeper, lasting transformations—without carrying their emotional burden.

Now, through the Integrated Growth Approach, I share the exact methods that helped me move from exhausted and stuck, to energized and impactful. I’ve helped many practitioners break free from burnout and build a practice where they lead with confidence, create real change, and love their work again.

I'm looking forward to doing the same with you.

Michael Mondoro, LCSW

Trauma and Trauma-Related Dissociation Specialist
Certified AEDP Therapist, Supervisor, and AEDP Institute Trainer and Presenter

(New York, NY)

Ebru is a visionary in the field of couples therapy. She has the rare ability to bring together deep emotional attunement with directness and sharp clinical insight, making her work profoundly impactful.

Her Integrated Growth Approach program is a testament to her innovative thinking—seamlessly integrating attachment-based couples therapy with differentiation systems-based models to foster both connection and autonomy in relationships. Ebru has a gift for translating complex clinical concepts into a clear, accessible, and deeply transformative framework.

Beyond her intellectual and clinical brilliance, she brings warmth, clarity, and an unwavering respect for the human experience. Whether as a clinician, client, or collaborator, anyone who has the opportunity to work with Ebru will find themselves challenged, supported, and profoundly enriched by her expertise.

Eve Hornstein, LMFT

Relationship & Trauma Therapist

(Florida + Connecticut)

For over ten years, Ebru and I have been collaborating on shared cases together, which has been invaluable to my growth and development as a therapist. She’s sharp, thoughtful, and always pushing herself to learn more—never settling for easy answers when a case calls for deeper thinking. Her ability to integrate attachment and differentiation keeps our conversations dynamic, always leading to fresh insights and actionable steps. But beyond her clinical skill, what stands out most is how much she truly cares—about the work, about growth, and most of all, about providing the highest quality care.

Karen Michelson, LPC

Couples Therapy Specialist

(Boulder, CO)

I have known Ebru for 15 years and it was clear to me from the beginning that she is an exceptional therapist. Having been in supervision groups and peer consultation groups with her over the years, and in regular individual consultation on various cases, I so appreciate her warmth, wisdom, and encouragement. I learn something from her in every interaction we have. She has keen intuition, an ability to get to the heart of the matter, seeing opportunities for developing a client’s insight, vulnerability, and growth, and suggests strategies to get there. At the same time, Ebru is humble and curious, open to other peoples’ perspectives, as she is always wanting to learn and grow. I am so excited for this training she has developed and I am confident that it will provide therapists a wealth of knowledge and strategies to strengthen their work with couples.

Lesley Alderman, LCSW

Interpersonal Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist & Journalist

(Brooklyn, NY)

Ebru is a caring, creative and wise therapist. I’ve known her for nearly a decade and have always been impressed by her intelligence and her curiosity about the therapy process. Working with couples can be a challenge, but also incredibly rewarding. This course is thorough, concise and insightful, bringing together the best of two powerful therapy modalities.

What Makes This Course Unique?

It's the clearest, most streamlined and dynamic way to integrate attachment and differentiation for couples therapy.
Taking you out of theory and into practice, this course precisely shows you when and how to integrate these otherwise divergent orientations.
In just eight weeks you will be empowered with critical frameworks and tangible tools to work with couples regardless of your level of experience.
The training is a combination of pre-recorded modules and live meetings, so that you can learn at your own pace while deeply assimilating the new insights.

Join the email list now to access this course at a significantly discounted rate, in exchange for your invaluable feedback that will help shape the future of this training.

Integrated Growth Approach

(Course launches September 2024)

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